In a day-care center, pre-school children are cared for from the age of three months until they enter kindergarten. According to «Sex education in the day-care center» by Jörg Maywald convey the following rules (can be found on page 100), which are proactively discussed in everyday group life and should be known to everyone. The rules should be hung up as pictograms in the daycare center. These rules are currently issued by the state educational bodies at many daycare centers. Parents seem to simply accept what kind of perverse manipulation is being carried out with the children here:
- Every child decides for themselves whether and with whom they want to explore their body.
- Girls and boys pet and examine each other only as much as is comfortable for themselves and the other children.
- No girl/boy hurts another child.
- No child puts something in another child's body opening (bottom, vagina, mouth, nose, ear) or licks another child's body.
- The age difference between the participating children should not be greater than one to a maximum of two years.
- Older children, teenagers and adults are not allowed to participate in physical exploration games.
- Getting help is not a snitch.
- If the day care center is not able to ensure compliance with these important rules (e.g. due to staff shortages or because the premises are too confusing), extended restrictions must be introduced, such as children not being allowed to strip naked during body exploration games.