Friends, did you know that the sleeping position you sleep in with your partner reveals a lot about your relationship? Psychologist Joao Oliveira, body language expert Paulo Sergio de Camargo and NLP (neurolinguistic programming) expert Antonio Cavalli have researched this and their findings show that body language when we sleep reveals unconscious thoughts about our relationship. Overall, the body language is much more meaningful than we thought ... Which of these positions are you most likely to find yourself in?
Back to back but touching
A couple sleeping in this position maintains their individual space without losing contact. "These are dynamic individuals who live independent lives but have healthy and stable relationships," says Oliveira.
Back to back, but at a distance
This position could signal that something is wrong in the relationship. According to Oliveira, «It could mean that there is tension, that you need more freedom or that there is no communication. But when the muscles are relaxed, it could just mean that the couple trust each other and respect each other's space."
Frontal without touching
According to Camargo, a couple sleeping in this position feels the need for privacy. The two partners respect their space and are not overly jealous. «The couple knows how to meet routines and how to respect each other without moving away from each other.
Even if there is no contact, this position indicates a good relationship and an active sex life».
Intertwined
This position is a sign of high desire and strong passion. «This position is often found at the beginning of a relationship», says Oliveira. «If it is still maintained after the first phases of the relationship, this can indicate a dependency of one or both partners. Jealousy is often involved."
Spoon position
According to Camargo, the person who hugs tends to be protective of the other. The other feels safe and comfortable. «Perhaps this is one of the positions that best shows the perfect harmony of a couple. The bodies, the sleep, everything becomes one».
In the embrace
Cavalli says the hug indicates effort. But also love and affect of the couple. “This position shows a good relationship. The couple has a good partnership and a satisfying sex life». Furthermore, Oliveira says, the one who cuddles in the other's arms shows a deep affection.
One of the two enters the other's room
This is not a good position for a couple. «A person who takes up too much space in bed shows no feeling and no love for the partner. She is looking for her self-affirmation in the relationship." The specialists believe that the relationship is going through a difficult phase in which the repressed person feels devalued and has little self-confidence.
Different positions, but with some contact
This position shows that the partners love each other, but at the same time should care more about each other. “There is a mix of passion and disagreement in the relationship. It could be that the couple is going through a period of fear and change. But they make an effort and work together to solve the problem."
Everyone in their room, but they touch each other
This position shows spontaneous contact. “Everyone respects each other's space. Both can have their own friends and hobbies, but there is mutual trust». The hand on top shows the intention to protect without exaggerating. The body turned towards the other indicates trust, the hands under the head shows that one is comfortable around the other.
Oliveira says that touching the other can also be a need for confirmation that everything is still okay.
One of them turns away completely
Camargo says, «There is affection here, but an imbalance between the two. One of the two partners is looking for love and would like more attention. »
(via Taringa)
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